Have you noticed that once you decide what you really want, your brain starts to spot those things that support what you have chosen?
This is your reticular activator at work.
So when you choose a new goal your brain begins to find what you need to achieve it.
Try this… say the goal is to spot white cars on your way home tonight, or similar, my guess is you will see more than you ever imagined you would.
So choose something you really want and see what comes to you to help you get it.
The universe (as we know, more than ever, thanks to the power of the internet) is waiting to answer all of your questions, so ask away.
It really does come to you from “out of the blue”.